Sharing wisdom that changes lives


Blue Dot Coaching

Sharing Wisdom That Changes Lives



Do you get the feeling that there’s more to life than what you’re experiencing?


More joy? More ease? More connection? More creativity? Just…more?




Our life coaching is utterly unique.  It’s all about helping you see something extraordinary: your infinite capacity.

Capacity for love. Capacity for connection. Capacity for peace. Capacity for creativity. Capacity for new ideas.

Through simple but powerful conversations, we explore the source of this infinite capacity. In you. In all of us.

The more you come to understand it, the more you get in touch with your inner spark, engage fully in life, tap into a deep sence of peace, unlock your creativity and intelligence, and feel closer and more connected to others. 

These conversations range from intellectual to playful, from the sublime to the mundane, and they speak to both our heads and our hearts. They’re engaging and fun and we absolutely love having them.

So if you’re ready to see something totally new, we can’t wait to get started and explore what’s possible for you.

About Us

Jason Berv, Ph.D. and Sumaya Abuhaidar, Ph.D. are registered Three Principles life coaches and love nothing more than pointing to the wisdom that has changed their own lives and the lives of countless others.

Jason and Sumaya have both had joyously diverse careers. Jason has been a teacher and school administrator,  a consultant to schools and nonprofits, and a serial entrepreneur. Sumaya has enjoyed stints as a teacher, small town mayor and university professor. Together, they founded The Watershed School, an innovative school in Boulder, Colorado. 

Most importantly, Jason and Sumaya are a happily married couple of 22 years, parents of two teenage boys, avid skiers and mountain bikers, voracious readers and learners, and caregivers to the two dogs and four horses who are lucky enough to live at their ranch in Crested Butte, CO. 

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years since The Three Principles changed our lives

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number of years Sumaya has been madly in love with horses

Personal Life

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Kind words from clients

I absolutely love working with Jason. His approach to coaching is unique and refreshingly "simple". He is brilliant - I would highly recommend his services to anyone in need of help with any life circumstance or seeking personal growth. 


-Stephanie from Colorado

Simply through thoughtful, open conversation, Jason has showed me how to move through the world with ease and grace. Thank you, Jason, for helping me to become the man, father and husband I always knew I could be.”


— Jeff from Colorado

Working with Sumaya and her herd was EXACTLY what I was looking for.  It doesn't matter where you are on your personal growth journey, Sumaya and her herd offer an incredible backdrop to open new levels of awareness, joy, connection and intuition. I couldn't recommend the experience more.


-Cayla from Colorado

Working with Jason has provided me a new level of ease in my life.  I’ve found empowerment, confidence, boundaries, and compassion along with unexpected delightful opportunities. I so appreciate working with Jason!


— Jessica from New York

Jason guides you to learn more about yourself in a very short amount of time. The results are more patience, less frustration, more creativity, less stress and anxiety and all of a sudden a realization that troubling issues you felt needed attention just a short time have dissipated without any attention to them at all. Brilliant.


-Darcie from Colorado

My time with Sumaya and her beautiful herd of horses was a sublime experience.  Sumaya’s gentle, inviting yet assured guidance to move me into a deeper state of presence with myself and with the horses was a powerful beginning.  Sumaya is compassionate, wise, passionate and heartful. This work has real power and magic to it!


-Sandra from Colorado

My discussions with Jason have had a profound impact on my life. I was clearly ready to make a significant change but I could not have done it without his guidance.  Being in this conversation with him is like serious play with a joyful trusted advisor who shares wisdom in simple yet profound ways.

— Abe from Oregon


Working with Sumaya and the horses was an incredible experience.  I walked away with a truly powerful personal message that has helped me capitalize on so many opportunities in my life.


— Hannah from Colorado

Jason is a magician! He makes profound spiritual teachings very down to earth and accessible, even palpable as you are with him. My sessions with Jason helped me deepen my sense of trust in life, my intuition and my inspirations. More ease, more peace - what a gift!


-Sandra from Colorado

Jason is thoughtful, wise, and knows his stuff. I leave our conversations feeling lighter, more confident, and more connected to those around me as well as to my own heart. Working with him has been an absolute gift - not only for me, but for my family and colleagues as well.


-Erica from Montana

I invited Jason to facilitate workshops at the school I lead. He was very effective in guiding others to their own insights and to seeing a hopeful new understanding of the real source of their stress and anxiety. Jason worked skillfully with both adults and teens, all of whom recognized his mastery and deep compassion.


— Janet from California



I want to extend my deepest gratitude to you for your thoughtful services. You led us through a meditative, deeply insightful, and reflective dialectic with each other and with ourselves...all in service of this beautiful institution. Thank you for opening your heart and your mind to us and with us.


— Yasmine from California



Sumaya’s approach to equine guided coaching was gentle, well-informed and a created a lovely trajectory for guided learning. Sumaya is a delight and I am filled with gratitude.

— Adge from Colorado



Jason is very responsive and respectful. He has great insight and analogies to help put things into a new perspective that get you back on track in life, be it professional, personal or both!


-Keith from Oklahoma


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